Former presidential aide Reno Omokri has advised men to be deliberate in choosing life partners, warning against marrying women who see husbands primarily as financial providers.
In a recent post on social media, Omokri argued that marriage should be built on shared responsibility and value creation rather than financial dependence.
‘Buddy’ Versus ‘Burden’
Omokri drew a distinction between what he described as a “buddy” and a “burden” in marriage.
According to him, men should seek partners who are committed to building a future together, rather than those whose expectations revolve around lifestyle maintenance and extended family support.
“You need a contributor in your life,” he wrote, cautioning against marrying someone whose sole ambition after marriage is to distribute wealth they did not help create.
Happiness vs. Lasting Value
The former aide also questioned the idea of marrying solely for happiness. He argued that happiness is often influenced by circumstances and may not endure.
Instead, he encouraged men to prioritise partners who add measurable value to their lives, suggesting that such value fosters lasting joy and stability.
Omokri further noted that certain traits may not be obvious during courtship but could become apparent after marriage, particularly when couples begin living together.
Stirring Debate Online
His remarks have sparked conversations online, with supporters echoing his emphasis on partnership and critics questioning the framing of financial roles in marriage.
Omokri, known for his outspoken commentary on politics and social issues, frequently uses his platforms to weigh in on relationships and family life.
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