Nollywood actress Laide Bakare has stirred controversy after revealing that she introduced her daughter to clubbing and alcohol at the age of 17.
The actress made the disclosure during an interview with content creator Mr Lilgaga, where she spoke candidly about parenting and lifestyle choices.
According to Bakare, she takes pride in the fact that her daughter would someday acknowledge her as the one who gave her a first taste of nightlife.
“I took my daughter to the club for the first time at 17. And I like the fact that in her memoir, she would reference me as the person who introduced her to alcohol and clubbing,” Bakare said.
Her comments have triggered a wave of reactions on social media, with many Nigerians criticizing her for exposing a minor to alcohol and nightlife.
One X user, @It_hafizski, wrote: “Introducing a 17-year-old to alcohol and nightlife is reckless parenting, not cruise. At that age, guidance and discipline should come first, not clubbing.”
Another user, @Just_2undey, added: “Some of these people are not worth the pedestal the people place them on. All these coming from someone that calls herself a mother.”
Others described her action as poor role modeling, while some defended her, arguing that early exposure under parental supervision could foster openness between mother and child.
A user, @Sturbyrich, commented: “Low-key this thing normal, at least her daughter will be free to talk to her about anything. If she no carry her go club, she’ll still go by herself and might even do worse things.”
Despite the mixed reactions, Bakare has not withdrawn her statement, leaving Nigerians divided over whether her approach reflects unconventional parenting or outright irresponsibility.
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