Afrobeats singer Iyanya has spoken candidly about his difficulty committing to romantic relationships, linking it to painful past experiences and the intense demands of life in the music industry.
The 39-year-old made the disclosure during an interview on the Afropolitan podcast, where he reflected on how previous relationships affected his emotional outlook. According to the singer, conflicts with former partners often escalated into threats to damage his public image, leaving lasting emotional scars.
Iyanya explained that repeated experiences of this nature gradually shaped his reluctance to fully commit, especially as a public figure constantly under scrutiny. He noted that fame adds an extra layer of pressure to personal relationships, making misunderstandings more complicated and public.
He said he is currently not mentally prepared for a serious relationship or marriage, stressing that his focus is on healing and personal development. While he remains open to love in the future, he believes commitment can only happen when he reaches a healthier emotional space.
The singer also addressed misconceptions about celebrity lifestyles, stating that his long career in music does not mean he treats relationships casually. He said he has genuinely fallen in love in the past but felt emotionally wounded when private disagreements were threatened with public exposure.
Iyanya further revealed that he has chosen celibacy as part of his personal journey, although he admitted it has been challenging to maintain consistently.
His comments have sparked conversations online about the emotional toll of fame and the complexities celebrities face in maintaining private, healthy relationships away from the public eye.
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